• richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one
    link
    fedilink
    arrow-up
    13
    arrow-down
    2
    ·
    3 months ago

    I’m your total opposite. Requiring style in others is a huge red flag. If you care about more about the clothes of a person than about the person, I don’t want to know you.

    • Wild Bill@midwest.social
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      4
      arrow-down
      2
      ·
      3 months ago

      Fair enough. Personally, I prefer personality over appearance. But I also think it’s a visual turnoff to see no effort, also because the way a person dresses is usually the first thing most people notice. I do, anyway.

      • richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        5
        arrow-down
        1
        ·
        3 months ago

        it’s a visual turnoff to see no effort

        Life is short and I choose my mind’s content; I don’t care about clothing except for modesty, minimal work convention or warmth.

    • dmalteseknight@programming.dev
      link
      fedilink
      English
      arrow-up
      2
      arrow-down
      1
      ·
      edit-2
      3 months ago

      But style is also part of a person’s personality no? I say this as someone who slaps on clothes on themselves more often than not.

      • richieadler@lemmy.myserv.one
        link
        fedilink
        arrow-up
        2
        ·
        3 months ago

        But style is also part of a person’s personality no?

        Yes, if you accept “no style” (not caring about clothes at all) as a kind of style.

        Demanding a non-null style regarding appearance is unacceptable to me.